Homemaker's Haven

• She looketh well to the ways of her household...

It's time for this week's Homemaker's Haven, sponsored by Stephanie at a High and Noble Calling.

Last week was an easy week in some respects; we were out of town for several days, so my week consisted mostly of getting ready to leave and recouping after we got back.

Today I got a wonderful "prize" in the mail--remember a few weeks ago when I sang the praises of a wonderful organizer I used to have that was out of print? Stephanie had an old one that was barely used and offered to send it to me--and it came today! I can't wait to start using it--I'm sure I'll be the most organized gal on the block by the end of the week!

My goals for this week are:

1. Clean out the fridge--priority since it didn't get done last week
2. Catch up on laundry from the trip
3. Clip this week's coupons
4. Clean out my coupon binder--I know there are some expired/soon-to-expire ones lurking in there
5. Start my Christmas baking
6. Plan my menus
7. Work on two reviews and a giveaway for my food blog
8. Pack away my fall decorations
9. Get started in my new planner
10. Bible reading--Isaiah, chapters 40-68

My project for this week:

Start buying/making Christmas/Hanukkah decorations for the apartment--all on a budget of $20! I did pretty well for fall, but I did have some things from home to help. This will be a bit of a challenge, as all of my Christmas and Hanukkah stuff is in Louisiana. We'll be going home on the 18th, and we'll do most of our decorating there, but I don't want to postpone all of the holiday cheer until then. My goal is to see what I can get for cheap or free to make some cheery holiday decorations for my Doors of Welcome post, coming on the 15th, as well as a centerpiece for the table and a few other areas.

What are you doing this week to make your home a haven?

Until next time...

Homemaker's-- "Haven" or "Hovel"

• She looketh well to the ways of her household

It's time for another Homemaker's Haven post, where we set goals and seek some accountability for our efforts to fulfill them. This week Stephanie at A High and Noble Calling has a good post titled A Mary or Martha Thanksgiving, about keeping our priorities straight this busy holiday week.

Let me preface this next part by saying that I'm so glad I read the post this morning from Fishmama at Life as Mom about not comparing ourselves to others. She's been working on what she simply calls the "Get a Good Habit Going" challenge, where she works on one or two small things to get her routine in a better working order.

Do you ever have "one of those days"? I think I've had one of those weeks, which I've had before, but somehow it seems worse because I started off so well. I set my clock and got up just a bit earlier, I kept the television and the computer turned off, did some necessary shopping and cooking, but somehow slid back into mediocrity and worse. I did get to bed earlier some nights, not so early others. I set my clock anyway and got up and did my morning/daily routine about half the time, which is an improvement, but not as well as I had expected. I totally flubbed up the extra baking. One day I started and realized that while I had stocked up on most of the things I needed, I was missing a vital ingredient. So I switched gear and went a different direction, but I have burned or messed up in some way almost everything I've attempted, so I am taking a step back and regrouping! Today I have to run a couple of errands, catch up on laundry, and straighten the living room/dining room/kitchen; and then tonight and tomorrow I'll either get my baking done or throw that plan completely out the window, according to the results I get!

Last week's menu plan went pretty much as I'd planned, although not in the order I listed them. I made everything I'd listed except the pot roast, and I'll hold off on that until next week. This week we're planning on leaving bright and early Wednesday morning and won't be back until Saturday night, so the next two nights will be using up leftovers or making something quick and simple.

This week's goals are:

1. Clean out the fridge--besides the current leftovers which we'll use, there are some things "lurking" in the back that need to be thrown out.
2. Be sure laundry is caught up to simplify packing and traveling
3. Pick up and put away my "hot spots" on the coffee table and dining table
4. Pack
5. Do my baking--or not(!)
6. Take the time to keep myself mentally and spiritually grounded by spending some time with the Lord in prayer and reading my Word--holidays can be stressful, even when they go smoothly, which brings me to...
7. When the room gets hot and stuffy and the kids get loud, and there's no place to go to be alone--take a deep breath and go to my "happy place" and don't let the stress get to me--which is easier if I don't neglect #6

How have you done this week on making your home a haven?

Until next time...

Homemaker's Haven, 11/16

Welcome to this week's Homemaker's Haven , sponsored by Stephanie at A High and Noble Calling.

This week Stephanie has thrown down the gauntlet and given us some challenges to complete in five areas:

Begin Your day in God’s Word
*Challenge: Share what you have read in His word that has encouraged you today with others on your blog or in the comments.

I have some thoughts that have been swirling around in my head, bits and pieces of scripture, a sermon, and conversations with others, but it needs a separate post--hopefully to come later in the week, so stay tuned.

Complete Your Morning Routine
*Challenge: Share your morning routine on your blog and cross it out as you complete each item
My morning routine is (or should be) the following:

1. Get groomed and dressed for the day
2. Make bed
3. Make and eat breakfast
4. Start day's routine
5. Prayer and Bible reading/study

(I shared a couple of weeks ago why I think it works better for me on most days to get my day started before I have my prayer and Bible time. To be honest, sometimes it works better, as in I stay awake, but it can be counterproductive if I get distracted or sidetracked by my day--more on that later! :0) )

Have A Plan

*Challenge:Share your to-do list on your blog, cross each item off as you finish it.

1. Wash, dry, hang/fold one load of laundry
2. Cook bulk ground meat for this week's menu plan
3. Empty trash
4. Vacuum
5. Clip this week's coupons and work on coupon binder

What’s For Dinner?
*Challenge: Try to plan a menu out for this week and share it on your blog. Plan at least one meal that you can make from your pantry.

1. Chili for chili dogs
2. Spaghetti
3. Jambalaya
4. Chicken and dumplings
5. Homemade pizza or stuffed bread
6. Mexican cornbread
7. Pot roast

Complete a Project!

*Challenge: Choose a larger project to complete in your home today. Be sure to make it manageable. I find a large project is easier to complete if I set a goal of working on it for a set amount of time per day instead of trying to tackle it all at once (like my basement!).

My big project for this week is start goodie baskets for family we'll be seeing next week for Thanksgiving. We won't get a chance to see them again before Christmas, so that means doing some extensive baking this week and early next week. Watch my food blog, Secrets of a Southern Kitchen, I'll be sharing some recipes and pictures there.

Be sure to visit Stephanie and the other participants in this week's Homemaker's Haven challenge.

What have you done to make your home a haven lately?

Until next time...

Philippians 3:14 Friday, June 5

Another Friday has come and gone, time for an update on my efforts to "press toward the mark".

This last week, I did my morning routine at least half the time, but I confess there were days that I lagged a bit and took longer to get actually moving and doing. I got the files moved and the small filing cabinet moved out; purged about 15-20 books; did the daily cleaning/straightening in my bedroom about 3-4 days; skipped the daily stint in the front bedroom several days but added extra time on others to make up for it; and totally skipped the reading this week.

This next week I'm leaving home and going back to Georgia, so my goals are daily ones:

Sunday--pack clothes and personal things to take back with me and get the house ready to close up for the next couple of months.

Monday--travel day

Tuesday-Friday--unpack, start on daily routine, straighten coupon binder, buy groceries, catch up on emails, etc.

For more on Philippians 3:14 Fridays, see Which Proverbs 14:1 Woman?

Until next time...

Philippians 3:14 Friday, May 29

If confession is good for the soul, then I hope a world of good comes from my confession---I've had a most un-productive week this week. I had 10 things on my list for last week, and I did two of them--one of which was to get myself a pedicure! Ever read about the "Slough of Despair" in Pilgrim's Progress? Well, I think I fell into the "Pond of Procrastination" this week. Even this post is two days late!

Part of my procrastination, I've come to realize, is dreading the whole process of some tasks so much that I end up making them much larger in my imagination thant they are in reality. On the other hand, some jobs I put off because they are actually too big for me to tackle all at one time--those I need to break down into smaller, more achievable steps. And last but not least, I procrastinate because I think too long and hard about just the "right" way to do some things--should I file alphabetically or by category? Move everything first, then go back and label and organize, or move one file at a time, labeling and purging as I go? The truth is, there is no one right way to do many things, there's only what works or doesn't work for me as an individual, or for us as a family.

And so I go back to the drawing board for this week:

1. Work my morning routine
2. Work my daily/weekly routine
3. Move the files from the small filing cabinet to the big one
4. Purge 25 books
5. Spend 15 minutes daily cleaning and straightening in my bedroom
6. Spend 15 minutes daily cleaning and straightening in the front bedroom
7. Read one book just for fun

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Until next time...

Philippians 3:14 Friday, May 22

Goals, what goals?

I clicked over on Kate's Philippians 3:14 Fridays post on Which Proverbs 14:1 Woman? to find that she's in basically the same predicament I am. I had a busy week, but failed miserably at keeping on point with several of my goals.

• I did catch up on my couponing--clipping, sorting, filing--I was a couple of weeks behind in clipping the inserts, not to mention pulling the ones that have expired. It took several hours, spread out over an evening and the next morning. I finally gathered up the remaining coupons for things I'm not as likely to use and stuck them in some baggies which I'm going to "file" in the back pocket of my binder.
• I did go to the Explorations of Antiquities Center in La Grange, Georgia, and took lots and lots of pictures--that deserves a post all on it's on, which I'm planning for sometime next week!
• As the rest, well--I grocery shopped and cooked and went to church and packed to come back to Louisiana and drove the 10 hour drive and helped unload the truck and got mostly unpacked again. But the rest of the things on last week's list are, well, strangely unaccounted for.

So for the next week, I'm setting fewer goals and hopefully working harder at them:

1. Get a pedicure. It's a tough job, but someone has to do it.
2. Clean off my dresser, including clean and straighten the drawers
3. Clean off my chest of drawers, including the the two shelves behind the mirrored door
4. Move my files to my new-to-me filing cabinet (Remember I mentioned in an earlier Philippians 3:14 post that I needed a larger, better grade filing cabinet? Guess what we found at a neighbor's garage sale the very next day?? A 4-drawer, business grade filing cabinet for $15! A similar size and grade with a lock (this one doesn't lock) retails for about $180. What a find!
5. Buy and hang curtains for my son's room
6. Buy a couple of new hair accessories for me--my barrettes and clippies are sad.
7. Buy seeds, dirt, etc, and start some herb pots
8. Work my morning routine
9. Get my daily prayer-and-Bible reading back on track
10. Fast one day

And that's it for this week.

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Until next time...

Philippians 3:14 Friday, May 15

It's time for another Philippians 3:14 Friday! Putting my goals down in black and white and knowing that I'll come back to evaluate has really helped me to "press toward the goal" in several different ways.

1. It helps keep me on point--I find that I'm easily sidetracked. I start one task, see something else that I think I need to do "right quick", and end up doing myriad small tasks without accomplishing the bigger things that sometimes need to done to completion. (I remember a scene from the old M*A*S*H series when the David Odgen Stiers' character was newly assigned to the unit--the other staff were used to doing things as quickly as possible, making do with less-than-stellar conditions, etc. The new doctor, on the other hand, came from an environment of almost painstaking perfection. At one point, as he is about to demonstrate a new procedure to them, he makes this statement "I do one thing at a time. I do it very well. And then I move on." There are some situations where that may not work or be the wisest choice, but there are times that it would benefit all of us to be a little more single minded!)
2. It helps me to see where exactly I deviated from the plan--at one point last week I told my husband that I thought I had pulled out more stuff than I had time to put back! It does help me at times to stop and re-evaluate!
3. It encourages me when I see the things that I actually complete

And so, without further ado, my goals for last week were in two parts, one for Home-home, one for home-away-from-home

Part 1, for Louisiana

• Finish purging books --I more than met my goal of purging at least 25 books
• Dust and straighten the bookcases--not to perfection, but finished, nevertheless
• Finish my bedroom clean-up--the one thing that I totally did not do.
• Pack for the Georgia trip--done

Part 2, for Georgia

• Unpack--done
• Get my daily routine going--sort of done
• Catch up my blogging and email --done
• Do some advance posts--working on

And now this past week will be done somewhat in reverse--our son and I will be leaving toward the end of the week to go back to smalltown (Home-home) for about two weeks. We also found out this week that we'll be leaving Georgia for good and moving back home for at least a couple of months in August. Crazy schedule, isn't it? Meanwhile, my goals for the coming week:

1. Catch up on my couponing--clip those that need it, file them, and pull out any expired coupons
2. Pack most of my stockpile to take back home now, rather than later
3. Go to the Explorations in Antiquity Museum in LaGrange, Georgia (and take lots of pictures)
4. Work on financial aid information for son's next year in college
5. Print new business cards for ministry contacts
6. Get at least 3 posts uploaded and pre-scheduled for A Virtuous Woman, 2 for Secrets of a Southern Kitchen

Longer term goals:

1. Work on that 10 pounds I was going to lose in April
2. Make outline for Bible study series on the virtuous woman of Proverbs 31
3. Finish cleaning/organizing front bedroom at home (now that most of the pure junk is purged)
4. Clean out my dresser and dressing table in my bedroom
5. Look for new curtains for the kitchen--at least get a real idea of what I want, and whether I can sew them or just buy them
6. Fast three days (three one-day fasts)
7. Pick one Bible study course to work on this summer

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Until next time...

Philippians 3:14 Friday, May 8

Time for today's weekly update on setting and "pressing on" toward our goals. I've had a busy, productive week in many ways, thanks largely to my husband. He amazes me. He doesn't get to come home as often as I do, but when he's here, he works on home projects the whole time. Our "home" home is an older house, and there are always repair and maintenance items that need to be done. He usually runs out of time before he runs out of tasks.

The differences between us is readily apparent on a week like this one, where we're both home and both working on our respective projects. I'm a thinker, he's a doer. I think about what needs to be done, plan, try to decide what is the absolute best way to organize and place every item related to the task. I rely on him for inspiration--how can I not do something simple when he's doing so much? But practical help as well--not only do I rely on him for most of the heavy lifting, moving things around, and reaching those hard-to-reach places; but he encourages me to keep at it, one small step at a time, when I get overwhelmed my the sheer amount of stuff that needs to be sorted and tended to.

So how have I done on my weekly goals that I set?

1. I've managed meals pretty well this week. We've gone through a lot of groceries this week, because we're all here, all day. Some days it seems we barely get through with one meal when it's time to start at least thinking about the next, but we've definitely not gone hungry.


2. Morning routine, done most days.


3. I've lost track of the number of hours I've spent in the front bedroom (by faith I'm not calling it the junk room anymore!) I've cleaned out papers and documents from years of accumulation and careful saving. At some point you just have to let go. My filing is on hold until I can get a business grade filing cabinet; the old household-grade-from-the-discount-store just won't do. Holiday items are repacked and ready to be taken to the shed. I've culled out at least 10 books so far, and will finish pulling out at least 15 more by the end of the day.


4. Chest of drawers, not done yet.


5. Books not yet sorted.


6. I have taken some, but not all, of the donation items to their respective destinations. Some are loaded ready for delivery, the others should be finished today.


7. I "read-at" a book, but I still didn't take the time out to really read one front-to-back.


8. Ate my fruit and yogurt about half the time.


9. Read my Bible, but not daily


10. Continued prayer journal.

We have through this weekend to get everything done and get ready for our trek back to Georgia. Due to some scheduling issues, I'll be coming back to smalltown sooner than we'd expected--I'll only be spending about 10-12 days in Georgia before I'll be Louisiana bound again; this time for about two weeks. So while I'm trying to wrap up my projects, I'm figuring out my strategy for next time so I can complete the things that I don't get done this time.

In some respects I feel guilty that I didn't accomplish some of my seemingly simple goals. But I think I grossly underestimated the time factor involved in clearing out a decade, sometimes more, of accumulated trash and treasure.

My goals for now are short-term in nature:

• Finish purging books
• Dust and straighten the bookcases
• Finish my bedroom clean-up--I think I can get that done in an hour or two.
• Pack for the Georgia trip

Once we get back to home-away-from-home in Georgia, my goals are:

• Unpack
• Get my daily routine going
• Catch up my blogging and email
• Do some advance posts to help with the time I'll be back in smalltown on a slow internet connection

And that's all for me for now!

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Until next time....

Philippians 3:14 Friday (er, Saturday) 5/2

• She looketh well to the ways of her household

This week marks the end of one month and the beginning of another, not just on the calendar, but for Philippians 3:14 Fridays, as well.

Several of my weekly goals were met along the way, but I don't think I did so well on the monthly goals. In one sense, while it seems like a failed experiment, it really hasn't been on several levels.

"How can that be?" You may ask. Well, I'll tell you!

Long ago (in a galaxy far, far away!) I used to be a fairly organized person. In recent years...well, who's kidding who, for the last 20 years or so, I find myself on a downward spiral of being less and less organized, of fighting a constant, losing battle to keep up with work, home, church activities, even personal things I used to do for fun--crafts and reading for pleasure, just to name two.

It got even worse instead of better when I started staying home last year--instead of filling my days with the activities I loved and always said I would do "if I had time" I slipped into even worse habits of ennui and drifting through days and weeks without accomplishing much except the most humdrum of necessary activities. Every so often I would surface for air, with all kinds of intentions of starting anew and "this time I'm gonna____________"(fill in the blank--get organized, keep the house cleaner, take a class, you name it).

One of the things that I like about Philippians 3:14 Fridays, is that it helps me to at least put it "out there". Write down all of those little things that I always intend to do but never seem to get around to completing. Set some goals. Realize that the way to achieve those goals is to break them down into manageable pieces. (Joke break--How do you eat an elephant? One bite at a time)

If you don't have a particular destination, how will you know if you get there?

So, on to Philippians 3:14 Friday Saturday.

For my weekly goals from last week:

1. I did trim my hair and give myself a manicure of sorts--no polish, but I clipped and filed and buffed and used cuticle oil;
2. I cleaned out 85% of the old craft materials--giving some away and throwing some away--I have a few more things to sort and make decisions over;
3. I did some shredding and trashing of paper items, but not nearly enough;
4. I accomplished two speaking engagements in one week when one was unexpected rescheduled;
5. I did my morning routine about half the time.
6. I didn't get my bedroom finished, but I cleaned out a cabinet and two drawers in my kitchen, plus bathroom vanity underneath the sink.
7. I found our old Atari and games to donate to the youth center. Goodbye, Space Invaders and Pacman. And yes, there are kids in this era of Xbox and Playstation Whatever that find it fascinating and even fun to play these "old" games!

Monthly goals were not so well done:

Blog goals: I've had internet problems a lot, even the poky old dial-up was pokier than usual, and when I went to town to find Wi-Fi, one of my spots only worked about half the time. In another 10 days or so, I'll be back to high-speed internet and hope to accomplish my blog goals at that time.

Physical: Monitored my blood pressure and sugar fairly regularly; did not lose weight. Better luck next month.

Spiritual: I did not get to the Hallel, but did prepare and give two messages; started my prayer journal; fasted two days

Household: EEK--morning routine, so-so; lets just skip the rest!

Mental: I "read at" a couple of books, but did not read one front to back to completion

New Goals

I'm home in small town rural Louisiana for about 8 more days, so my goals are going to be for now until I leave for the big city.

1. Feed my family regular, healthful meals
2. Do my morning routine
3. Spend 5 hours this week working in the front bedroom/junkroom (broken into multiple days) Finish sorting craft materials, clean desk area and replace printer, get rid of at least 25 books, work on filing system, repack holiday items and put in the shed
4. Clean out my chest of drawers
5. Sort books to take back with me
6. Take donation items to youth center/library/Goodwill
7. Read one book this week--just for fun
8. Eat my fruit and yogurt daily
9. Read my Bible daily
10. Continue my prayer journal

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Until next time....

Philippians 3:14 Friday, April 24th

• She looketh well to the ways of her household

This week was not good for me as far as meeting my monthly/weekly goals. Again. Last Sunday I woke up with a head cold, which turned into one of the worst-while-it-lasted head colds I remember in a while. I didn't sleep well because I couldn't breathe lying down, and most days I was exhausted, so I didn't do much. I did, however, accomplish a couple of things.

1. Re-establish that morning routine I was working on While there were a couple of days I felt so bad I barely got dressed, believe it or not, I found that getting up and doing my morning routine made me feel better, even if I collapsed into the recliner immediately afterward and didn't move from there for the rest of the day
2. Clean out old craft materials in the closet Craft stuff is out of the closet, and while I still haven't actually gotten rid of it, I've got it semi-sorted according to trash (T-shirt paint that's at least 15 years old) to give away (ribbons and lace and pretty things for my crafty niece)
3. Work on the paper tiger--sorting, shredding, discarding, and filing Nope. Nada thing done on this
4. Add a piece of fruit and one serving of yogurt to my daily diet If dried cranberries and yogurt-covered raisins count as fruit, then I did this everyday. If not, then 4-5 days
5. Get my hair cut or trimmed Didn't want to spread my germs, so I didn't do this yet
6. Start on my message for a speaking engagement I have coming up I had an unexpected opportunity for an additional speaking engagement for this weekend, so preparing for both of these was my main focus for the last couple of days.
7. Check out venue(s) for the Praise and Coffee event I want to host while I'm home Nothing on this one--I was too germy feeling to go a food service place of business--this may have to be postponed until I get back to Georgia.
8. Catch up on the assignments for the 31-Day Build a Better Blog Challenge I did mail my partner once this week, and read a couple of the assignments, but without high-speed internet some of these are really difficult--it takes a long time to download some of the pages I'd like to read, so this was has been slightly postponed, as well.

New goals for the coming week:

1. Continue morning routine, add weekly jobs--dusting, floors, etc.
2. Work on the paper tiger--sorting, filing, shredding
3. Get some donation items ready for the youth center
4. Clean my bed room well--I started this already, but need to continue
5. Continue prep for next speaking engagement
6. Remember--veggies are our friends
7. Get my hair cut or trimmed
8. Give myself a manicure

I know that sometimes it seems that I fail at my goals more than I succeed, but even in areas where I don't aways accomplish what I set out to do, I can still see positive trends.

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Phillippians 3:14 Friday--April 17

• She looketh well the ways of her household

This week has been a total disaster as far as working toward my goals. Absolutely the only thing I did toward anything at all was take apart our old computer and redistribute the parts--some to the trash, some to storage--to clear off the desk in our front bedroom/junkroom/office/library/everything room.

In my defense, my son was home from college on spring break, so I spent most of my time with him in one capacity or another. We didn't do anything particularly "spring breaky", but we had a good time driving here and there, looking up old haunts and searching out new to us places where some of our family has history.

My goals for the coming week are:

1. Re-establish that morning routine I was working on
2. Clean out old craft materials in the closet
3. Work on the paper tiger--sorting, shredding, discarding, and filing
4. Add a piece of fruit and one serving of yogurt to my daily diet
5. Get my hair cut or trimmed
6. Start on my message for a speaking engagement I have coming up
7. Check out venue(s) for the Praise and Coffee event I want to host while I'm home
8. Catch up on the assignments for the 31-Day Build a Better Blog Challenge

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Until next time!

Philippians 3:14 Friday- April 10

I like having a "to-do" list, the only problem is, if I do something that isn't on the list, I want to add it so I can cross it off. This week has been like that. I've accomplished a little of what I set out to do, but some of it has been sorely lacking. My justification is that I've did some additional things that weren't on my list (!) so that should count for something, right?

These are the areas from my monthly goals that I've worked on:

For my Blog:

• Participate in, and complete, the 31-Day Build A Better Blog challenge.
• Take this opportunity to refocus on my original goals for A Virtuous Woman.

Although I haven't posted about what I'm doing for the 31DBBB challenge, I am doing the activities behind the scenes, and I've begun the refocus, as well.

Physical:

This is my weakest area--the only thing I've done so far is try to be moderate in my eating most of the time.

Spirtual:

I started my reading at Psalms 111 and haven't progressed to the Hallel yet, but I'm almost there. I attended a Messianic Passover Seder Wednesday night---participating in the "appointed times" ordained by the Lord have an especially profound impact on me becuase it isn't something I was raised up doing, it's something that I believe the Lord has brought me to, and that I do with purpose and thoughtfulness.

Household:

• Establish a morning routine
• Clean and organize the front bedroom/junk room
• Fix my broken filing system--sort through and file/shred as needed

I posted Monday about my morning routine--I've been successful on most, but not all of these points this week-getting up at a regular time, making the bed, straightening the bathroom--I haven't always gotten dressed within an hour, or done my Bible reading and prayer before I leave the house, but overall I'd give myself a 75/100.

In the front bedroom/junk room, I put our old computer back together so I could get some documents/files off of it before I find a new home for most of it. Once that gets moved out of the way, my next task is to organize the desk area and re-establish a filing system. I need to clean out craft supplies for things I no longer do, or are outdated, and then the hardest task of all--purge books.

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Until next time...

Challenges

This month will be one of changes and challenges for me; some circumstantial, some self-imposed.

The first challenge is circumstantial--I've left my home-away-from-home in Georgia, and returned to home-home in small-town, rural Louisiana, where I'll be for the next several weeks. It's definitely a different life here, with fewer stores and a different household dynamic, not to mention change in scenery!

Some additional challenges are self-imposed.



I'm participating in the Phillipians 3:14 Bloggy Carnival, hosted by Kate at "Which Proverbs 14:1 Woman?" This challenge is all about setting goals and holding ourselves accountable by posting about them and sharing our successes, and, dare I say it, failures, for all the bloggy world to see. Or at least as much of the bloggy world as cares to read about it. This was supposed to start Friday, but that was my travel day--I drove the 10 hours from home-away-from-home to home-home all my myself. More on that later. Needless to say I did not post afterwards. And while I meant to get my Phillippians 3:14 Fridays post ready the night before, I didn't actually do it. More on that later, too.

In addition to the Phillippians 3:14 challenge, starting Monday I'll be participating in the "31-day Build a Better Blog challenge", sponsored by Darren Rowse at ProBlogger. Susan at Craving the Savings is my partner for this challenge. This challenge of this challenge will be compounded by the fact that at home-home I have dial-up internet access, unless I take my lap-top to town to find a wi-fi spot, or borrow someone else's computer who has high-speed internet to do my posting. We aren't home enough to justify the expense of maintaining satellite internet, which is the only high-speed internet we country gals have access to, at least in my neck of the woods.

So, here are my goals, in no particular order:

For my Blog:

• Participate in, and complete, the 31-Day Build A Better Blog challenge.


• Take this opportunity to refocus on my original goals for A Virtuous Woman.


• Find, create, build, or buy, a logo design for A Virtuous Woman.


• Find, create, build, or buy, a logo design for Secrets of a Southern Kitchen.


• Find, create, build, or buy, a logo design for the weekly Mission Possible post.

Physical:

• Lose 10 pounds


• Monitor my blood pressure and sugar at least 4 days a week


• Do something about my hair. Cut, color, style, something needs to give.

Spiritual:

• Read and study the Hallel--Psalms 113-118


• Start a new prayer journal


• Fast at least 3 days

Household

• Establish a morning routine


• Clean and organize the front bedroom/junk room


• Fix my broken filing system--sort through and file/shred as needed


• Replace kitchen curtains


• Establish daily and weekly routines

Mental (?)

• Read one new book

I think I'm all over the map with my goal-setting--I've read that in order to be successful at meeting goals, you have to be specific--"exercise 3 times this week" instead of "exercise more this week", and I can see that I've failed miserably at being specific in I didn't exactly do that for some of these. But, since this is an ongoing project, and I'll see what I can do to fix that by next Friday.

Until next time...