Saturday, August 29, 2009

Trip Around the Mountain Baby Quilt

  • She seeketh wool, and flax, and worketh willingly with her hands.
  • She layeth her hands to the spindle, and her hands hold the distaff.
  • She is not afraid of the snow for her household: for all her household are clothed with scarlet.
  • She maketh herself coverings of tapestry; her clothing is silk and purple.
  • She maketh fine linen, and selleth it; and delivereth girdles unto the merchant.
  • Give her of the fruit of her hands...

Have you ever noticed how many of the verses in the Virtuous Woman series of Proverbs 31 are about working with her hands? Handcrafts and needlework of various sorts have been part of women's lives since time immemorial. Sometimes out of necessity and economics, sometimes just for beauty and pleasure. To me, a quilt embodies all of it--economy, necessity, and beauty--into one piece.

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My grandmother used to love to do what she called "piecing scraps"---using remnants and leftover fabrics to make something out of almost nothing. I can look at many of her quilts today and identify some of the scraps--this one from the pink dress I wore in sixth grade, that one from a skirt my mother made for my sister, still another from a church dress my Nanny wore. Each piece was a trip down memory lane.

The quilt I'm sharing today is one that's especially near to my heart--a baby quilt with a special history.

In the late 1950's when my mother was expecting her first child (yes, it was me!) my grandmother made this quilt top--a "trip around the mountain" pattern. Before it was finished, she fell and suffered a serious compound fracture that required surgery, and a lengthy recovery. The quilt was never finished, but folded away among her bags of scraps.

Many years later when my husband and I were expecting our first baby, my Nanny (that's my grandmother) pulled out the original quilt top, added some fabric to the ends to make it bit larger, and had it quilted for us. Sadly, by the time it was finished I had suffered a miscarriage, and the finished quilt was once again wrapped up and put away for safekeeping. It stayed there until the birth of our son two and a half years later, when it was finally put to it's intended use.

If it looks a bit faded and worn, that's because it was well used. Some of those old fabrics aren't as "color fast" as new fabrics, and the edges of some squares have bled a little into the next ones. But can you see the hearts quilted into the solid blue fabric at the ends? And sense the love and care that went into each and every stitch?

Now that it's served it's purpose, it has a place in the blanket chest in my bedroom--but it will always have a special place in my heart and in my memory. Started for one baby, finished for a second, and finally used with the third--I think that qualifies as quite a "trip around the mountain" all by itself.

To see other vintage finds and collections, join me at Vintage Thingie Thursday at Coloradolady.

Until next time...

Wednesday, August 26, 2009

Today's Agenda

  • Who can find a virtuous woman...
  • She looketh well (???) to the ways of her household

I knew I hadn't been posting much lately, but I didn't realize until just now that I've only made two posts this whole month--and it's the 25th already! Yikes!

So where have I been and what have I been doing?

Some of the time I've been wandering aimlessly through my days, doing just enough to get by, but not enough to feel any real sense of accomplishment. Do you ever have days like that? I remember seeing a greeting card one time that said "Mother said there'd be days like this...but she failed to tell me they could go on for weeks at a time!" That's exactly how I feel!!

Other days (and weeks!) I start off with a sense of purpose or a feeling of productivity, and I end up chasing distractions, kind of like a little girl chasing butterflies--fun to do for a while, but eventually you wonder why you haven't gotten farther along the path to your destination! I even told someone last week that I felt like a dog that had been chasing it's tail, or a chicken running around with it's head cut off--excuse the Southern down-home expressions--not a pretty visual, but true, nevertheless.

And so here I am. Again. Chasing butterflies and dog tails like a headless chicken. How's that for a turn of phrase?

I have lots of excuses, and I could list them, but don't we all have our own list already?

And so, I am making a new list. Not of excuses, just a list. Of what I hope to accomplish.

Today I will:

  1. Work on a regular morning routine
  2. Plan dinner
  3. Wash and dry at least one load of clothes
  4. Spend some time reading my Bible and praying for someone besides myself
  5. Spend some time at the library working on blog posts
  6. Stick to my diet
  7. Smile at 10 people who randomly cross my path

What's on your agenda today?

Until next time...

Wednesday, August 12, 2009

Just When You Think You're Caught in a Rut


  • Who can find a virtuous woman? Her price is far above rubies
  • She is like the merchant's ships, she bringeth her food from afar
  • She looketh well to the ways of her household

When I wrote my last post I was feeling so very "unvirtuous", and I have to confess, this week is not much better in that respect. I have a unique and happy set of circumstances facing me, though, that I'm hoping will serve as a challenge (in a good way!) for me to step up my game and actually walk daily in my calling as a virtuous woman.

Last week at this time I thought I was leaving on Friday for a 10-day trip home to Louisiana, both to bring our son back for his next semester at college and for a much-needed family time at home (officially a vacation, but for my hubby that means a week of intense repair and maintenance as he tries to do everything in a week that needs to be fixed or replaced at our house). I was planning on packing one bag, my computer, and a couple of books for myself--"traveling light" for once!

Then I got that unexpected middle-of-the-day call from hubs, "Better pack heavy, we're gonna be at home for a while". "What do you mean, 'for a while'?" All the while thoughts raced through my head--what was up, was he telling me he'd been laid off or let go from his job?? No, thankfully, just sent to a different job site for a few weeks so he could have some time at home! Whoo hoo!

Meanwhile, new thoughts flooded my head--"Oh my goodness, have I got a lot of packing to do!"

And so, less than 48 hours later, we started off, loaded to the gills, headed home.

Next week, when he goes back to work after his week off, will be the first time my husband has lived a regular, everyday go-to-work-and-come-back-home life at home in six years. Six years.

Wow. Have I got some homekeeping to do.

Right now we are still surround by boxes and tubs and stuff--trying to integrate our "on the road" stuff with our home stuff. We live in an older house, so there is a lot that needs to be done, inside and out, to make it home-like again.

I definitely have less options to choose from when it comes to shopping, unless I go to larger cities at least an hour or more away in any direction. Compound that with somewhat less money coming in during these weeks, I'll definitely be looking for creative ways to stretch what we have even further.

Did I mention that we live in an older house? That means a few less of the modern conveniences, too. (When I say, "Where's the dishwasher?", I'm looking for person, not an appliance!)

But I'm excited. Things are different. And yet the same. Just not too much.

I'm ready to begin.

Wednesday, August 5, 2009

Where, Oh Where Can She Be?

  • Who can find a virtuous woman?

I think my quest to find the virtuous woman inside of myself has been a little like searching for hidden treasure--I have a feeling that she's inside there, somewhere, but I've no real evidence of it of late.

My posting has been a bit sporadic--I admit it, I've been struggling with my blogs, as well as twitter --something about it all has been a bit--"off" recently.

Part of it is circumstantial...

It's been brutally hot this summer, so I haven't cooked, thrifted or chased deals much.

I've been tryng to use down my freezer stash to make room for homegrown meat and vegetables from home--where we'll be headed in two days!

We didn't do a lot the first part of the summer, again due to the heat, but for the last couple of weekends we've been taking some day and weekend trips and sight seeing a lot, trying to get some quality family time before our son heads back to college for the fall, and while I've really enjoyed many parts of that, it has definitely taken me outside of my comfort zone on a couple of occasions.

But part of it has been me...

My plans--my plans--have been frustrated several times due to circumstances beyond my control, and I don't handle the stress and the frustration well. In fact, I've handled it poorly several times.

I haven't opened my mouth with wisdom and kindness--more like whining and complaining. And sighing. Lots and lots of sighing.

I haven't behaved in a way for my husband or child to praise me--they do well to be able to tolerate me at times.

If I had to eat of the fruit of my hands, it'd be either over ripe or dried up.

And yet...

I found a gem of a thought this week in a book from Beth Moore, John: 90 Days with the Beloved Disciple (Personal Reflections) I can't do Beth Moore justice, but this is what it spoke to me.

In John 21:7, Jesus has been resurrected, but is not spending a lot of time with the disciples. They're back at their old occupation of fishing. John recognizes that it's Jesus on the shore, but it's Peter who acts. He strips off his clothes and just plunges in. Never mind asking to be able to walk on water again--it's not about the thrill, it's not about the miracle, it doesn't matter if the water is cold, or deep, or what may be hidden in the depths--he had to get to the Master

And the Master, after feeding them, gave Peter a chance to tell Him that he loved Him. Not just once, but three times. Coincidence that Peter had also denied Him three times? Maybe. Or maybe not.

So what does that mean to me? Sometimes you have to get beyond what you look like to others. Sometimes you have to get over your fears of what lies hidden in the depths that you can't see. And sometimes you have to plunge ahead instead of sitting and waiting. You might get wet, but you'll get there before everyone else.

And so, here I go, taking that plunge.

And telling the Lord I love Him. I'm so glad He loves me, too, even when I'm not so virtuous.

Until next time...

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